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Earl Nightingale – The Strangest Secret

Stuart Young, London, UK

Hiya,

The late great Earl Nightingale spends 30 minutes in the video below teaching us about The Strangest Secret.

Including:

  • WHY you should set goals
  • How changing the way you think will be your greatest asset
  • And a 30 Day test to improving your chances of success

Stay tuned over the next couple of days for details of how you can get your f.ree copy of my new eBook “Do You Hate Your Job?” – which shows you how to change the way you think about your present situation.

Enjoy,

Stu

:)

PS: To get your f.ree copy of ”Do You Hate Your Job?” a full two weeks before it goes on sale on Kindle, simply sign up for my f.ree ‘Ponders, Quotes and Questions‘ thought provoking email list here on the top right side of that page.

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8 circumstances that told me I was stuck in the wrong job

Stuart Young, London, UK

Hiya,

10 years ago I was stuck in a rut with my career. I didn’t know how to get out of my situation. You may be in a similar position yourself. Looking back there were 8 signs that told me I desperately had to change something.

These are the 8 circumstances that told me I was in the wrong job:

1. I found that I was short tempered a lot of the time

2. I had no clarity about my future

3. I felt frustrated most of the time with no clear understanding of why

4. I felt stuck, and didn’t know which way to turn

5. I dreaded going in to work every day and even had daily anxiety pains in my chest

6. Even though I’m not a natural worrier I found myself having worrying thoughts about what my life meant, if I would ever achieve the goals I had as a kid, and whether I was going to have an enjoyable retirement

7. I felt like a huge bundle of potential tied in a knot and…

8. I had no savings, no investments and no obvious prospects.

All of that changed one day with a simple shift in my Mindset. Within 3 months my life had turned upside down for the better!

Stay tuned for details of how you can get your f.ree copy of my upcoming book “Do You Hate Your Job?” which shows you how to make that all important Mindset shift.

Enjoy,

Stu

:)

PS: To get your f.ree copy of ”Do You Hate Your Job?” a full two weeks before it goes on sale on Kindle, simply sign up for my f.ree ‘Ponders, Quotes and Questions‘ thought provoking email list here on the top right side of that page.

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Are you fulfilling your potential?

Hiya,

If you want to enjoy your work more or possibly change what you do presently to something more satisfying and fulfilling, then you must start by shifting your Mindset.

If you needed any more compelling evidence for the power of Mindset watch this brilliant TED Talk by Eduardo Briceno who says: “If we’re to fulfill our potential we must think differently.

  • Fixed Mindset people worry about how they are being judged.
  • Growth oriented Mindset people simply value the opportunity to learn.
  • Fixed Mindset people see effort as a bad thing.
  • Growth oriented Mindset people see effort as what makes us smart and able to grow.
  • Fixed Mindset people see setbacks as evidence they are incapable.
  • Growth oriented Mindset people view setbacks as obstacles to be overcome.

Stay tuned for details of how you can get your f.ree copy of my upcoming book “Do You Hate Your Job?” which shows you how to make those all important Mindset shifts.

Enjoy,

Stu

🙂

PS: To get your f.ree copy of ”Do You Hate Your Job?” a full two weeks before it goes on sale on Kindle, simply sign up for my f.ree ‘Ponders, Quotes and Questions‘ thought provoking email list here on the top right side of that page.

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What my new eBook will do for you…

Stuart Young, London, UK

Hiya,

At the end of this month I will be publishing my new eBook on Kindle titled:

Do You Hate Your Job?

The 5 things this book wants to help you figure out:

  • 1. If you are in the wrong job
  • 2. An understanding of your options
  • 3. The best way to make a big decision
  • 4. What your fears and doubts are based on
  • 5. How changing your Mindset will help you plan ahead

You can get a f.ree copy simply by signing up to my ‘Ponders‘ group here (just go to the top right of that page where it says ‘Sign up here’).

Let’s make 2014 the year that we all love what we do for a living – it takes up half our waking life after all.

Enjoy

Stu

🙂

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Job satisfaction is NOT about the money – or is it?

Hiya,

10 years ago when I quit my job and started my own company I fully expected to earn less – at least for a year or two.

That’s not what happened.

Today’s blog post on my other site talks more about what job satisfaction actually means and how you can identify what it is that drives you in your career.

Read more here

Enjoy

Stu

🙂

PS: To get your f.ree copy of ”Do You Hate Your Job?” a full two weeks before it goes on sale on Kindle, simply sign up for my f.ree ‘Ponders, Quotes and Questions‘ thought provoking email list here on the top right side of that page.

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Complete audio version of Napoleon Hill’s “Think and Grow Rich”

Hiya,

I will be releasing my NEW eBook “Do You Hate Your Job?” soon.

I still have a bit of final editing to do.

As part of the run up to the publication date I wanted to share some of the concepts and practices that have helped me over the last 10 years with my own career.

Above is a complete audio version of Napoleon Hill’s “Think and Grow Rich” – and in my opinion it’s an absolute must for anyone seeking to improve any part of their life. In particular – their job or career.

Make this YOUR year – take time to listen to it, it could just change your life!

Enjoy

Stu

🙂

PS: To qualify for a f.ree copy of “Do You Hate Your Job?” a full two weeks before it goes on sale on Kindle, simply sign up for my f.ree ‘Ponders, Quotes and Questions‘ thought provoking email list here on the right side of that page.

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Do you hate your job? (Radio show replay)

Hiya,

Below is the replay of my interview on the Laura Longley show from New year’s Eve – Do You Hate Your Job?

How to decide if you can fall back in love with your job or whether it’s time to quit…

Listen here: Laura New year

(read full post here)

Enjoy

Stu

🙂

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Help others by being selfish…

Thought I’d share Neale Donald Walsch’s latest blog post:

“My Dear Friends…

When I was a child, I was told that love means thinking of others first.  Then Conversations with God said I should always put myself first.  Could this be right?  How could I reconcile this with my earlier life teachings?

The answer is that everything has to do with intentions.  If it is your intention in life to live the grandest version of the greatest vision you ever held about who you are, and if that vision of yourself is that you are loving, caring, generous, kind, compassionate, and truthful, then you will behave towards others in a way which could look like you are putting them first.  The difference is that you will be doing this not for others, but for yourself…because this is simplywho you are.

When we do things for others (or imagine that this is what we are doing), two insidious attitudes can appear:  Expectation and Resentment.  We may begin to expect that those for whom we are doing things now “owe” us, and we may experience growing resentment if they don’t “pay up.”

On the other hand, when we do things for ourselves (even if that results in nice things happening for others), it will be difficult to move into Expectation, and virtually impossible to build up Resentment…unless we clearly do not understand the nature of what is occurring.  That is, unless we ignore or deny that we are doing something for ourselves, and actually convince ourselves that we are doing it for another.

In truth, everything you do, you do for yourself, because every act is an act of self-definition.  All of life is a process of deciding Who You Are.  Your purpose is to experience that, and to recreate yourself anew in the next grandest version of it.  This is called Evolution.

So think of yourself first at every moment of decision.  Think of Who You Are, and of what you are trying to become.  Make the highest choice about that – paint the greatest picture you could ever imagine of Who You Are in every place and circumstance – and all the rest will take care of itself.

Love always, Neale”

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The quickest way to feel valued and appreciated.

Stuart Young, London, UK

This is January 3rd of my book:  ‘How To Change Your Life One Day At ATime‘.

Take the opportunity today to thank someone unexpectedly! It’ll change their day. 🙂

We all like to be thanked, it shows us that we are appreciated and valued and probably more fundamentally – noticed!

As we thank another we are sending that person something intangible and immeasurable. But watch the reaction of the recipient. Some will smile broadly and some will beam proudly while others will have a more subtle reaction.

A reaction there will be though. In sending out that thanks you will automatically open yourself to receive it more readily yourself and therefore feel valued and appreciated aswell.

Get in to the habit of enjoying thanking people and it could turn out to be one of the easiest ways to positively influence your life and the lives of those around you.

When you search for the opportunity to thank unexpectedly it will have the biggest impact. It’s second nature to most people to thank someone if we have the door held open for us or if someone gives us a lift but find that occurrence when someone does something they don’t expect you to notice.

Maybe the postman will pick up a piece of litter off your front lawn or the shop assistant might run to fetch that bottle of milk you forgot while you’re at the checkout.

Search for it and you’ll find it and when you do you’ll find yourself searching for that opportunity all the time.

Have fun looking. 🙂

Enjoy

Stu

:)

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36 GOLD Star reviews and counting so far!

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Can you choose to have a better life?

Stuart Young, London, UK

This is December 26th of my book:  ‘How To Change Your Life One Day At ATime‘.

Take the opportunity today to consider the choices you make.

Your entire life is the result of the choices you have made. And I don’t necessarily mean your external life. If you’ve been run over by a bus sometime in your life – chances are it wasn’t your fault. But how you reacted to it happening was your choice.

Yes. It was.

So, where are you in your life? If you’re not exactly where you want to be (most of us aren’t) then consider why that is. Start with: Am I moving towards my goals, away from my goals or just standing still?

The answer to that question will bring up another ‘why?’ If you’re not moving towards your goals it may be down to your paradigms, your belief systems. Do you believe you’re not capable? Don’t deserve it? Aren’t worthy? Aren’t well enough connected? Don’t have enough money? What?

None of those are real reasons. So dig a bit deeper. Whatever you find will be a choice you’re making. Look at what you want and I would bet my house that someone somewhere has overcome the same hurdles as you in order to get it.

Which means…you can too.

You might have to find out what choices they made and copy them. You might just have to break the steps necessary to achieve your goal down into smaller chunks so you can have a better chance of achieving it.

Look at your choices today.

Enjoy

Stu

:)

PS: BUY yourself, OR someone else a copy of my book, right here on Amazon: http://amzn.to/1ahfW7R (my listing is 2nd from top – it’s only £7.99 at the moment AND they’re brand new AND signed).

36 GOLD Star reviews and counting so far!

PPS: Get my F.REE daily thought provoking  ’Ponders, Quotes and Questions‘ emails by visiting my NEW blog and putting your email in the box on the right, click here: http://howtochangeyourlifeblog.com

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