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Take the opportunity today to get in touch with your envy.


Most people are envious in some way or another of someone else. We love the house they live in or the car they drive or the partner they’re with or the lifestyle they lead yada yada.

Then the guilt button might go on. Often people feel bad for feeling envious. There’s no need. Envy can be a good thing. Envy drives us on to create the same in our lives. Envy can be the fuel you need to reach your goals. Envy can be useful.

Jealousy however is envy’s darker sibling. Jealousy wants what someone else has. Not something the same or similar but actually what they have. Jealousy leads to lies and deceit and resentment. In the worst cases it can lead to hate, anger and crime.

So the next time you want what someone else has consider whether you are being jealous or envious. If it’s the latter, allow that to spur you on to get the same. Use what they have as a model. Even go as far as to ask them how they got what it is you want.

Good luck.



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So here it is, …

So here it is, the result…

Thanks to all of those that took part in the voting,

I can confirm that of the 140+ voters that offered feedback:

38% Voted for ‘A’  (28% women, 10% men)

33% Voted for ‘B’  (17% Women, 16% Men)

29% Voted for ‘C’  (14% Women, 15% Men)


So it was much closer than I expected!

Stay tuned for confirmation of the launch date

and where you can buy a copy.


Thanks again




March 1, 2012 · 3:56 pm

Take the opportunity today to create a win-win situation with a friend.


I don’t know about you but there have been occassions in the past
where I’ve dug my heels in over something so that I could win. It
often meant that someone else lost. It might have been an argument or
debate, it may have been a negotiation at work or over the price of a
house or car. Whatever it was, the important thing to me at the time
was to win. We don’t want to look like suckers or losers or someone
that doesn’t know what they’re talking about right? Hmm.

Well there’s another option. Allow the other party to win too.
Compromise so that you both get what you want to some extent. Make it
clear in a debate that you value the other’s opinion or knowledge but
that you simply disagree – they don’t have to be wrong. When
negotiating plan ahead so that you can accept their final offer that
way you get what you expected and they feel like they had the last
say. When buying something of high value try to meet the vendor
halfway – you’ll both feel better for it. Some of this will prove very
difficult and sme will come easily, all I suggest is that you try.




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